{M-H-O} Love Sex Or Dhoka .... Its all about fun ?

Lets Start with Meanings :- Love is any of a number of emotions  related to a sense of strong affection and attachment. The word love can refer to a variety of different feelings, states, and attitudes, ranging from generic pleasure to intense interpersonal attraction. As an abstract concept, love usually refers to a deep, ineffable  feeling of tenderly caring for another person. Sex is a process of combining and mixing genetic  traits, often resulting in the specialization of organisms  into a male  or female  variety.Human sexuality is how people experience the erotic and express themselves as sexual beings.  Frequently driven by the desire for sexual pleasure, human sexuality has biological, physical, and emotional aspects. Biologically, it refers to the reproductive mechanism as well as the basic biological drive that exists in all species and can encompass sexual intercourse and sexual contact in all its forms. Dhoka i.e. Betrayal is the breaking or violation of a presumptive social contract, trust, or confidence  that produces moral and psychological conflict within a relationship amongst individuals, between organizations or between individuals and organizations. Recent Development... In an observation that will cheer votaries of pre-marital sex and live-in-partners, the Supreme Court on Tuesday opined that a man and woman living together without marriage cannot be construed as an offense. "When two adult people want to live together what is the offence. Does it amount to an offence ? Living together is not an offence. It cannot be an offence," a three judge bench of Chief Justice KG Balakrishnan, Deepak Verma and BS Chauhan observed. The court said even Lord Krishna and Radha lived together according to mythology. Now that statement is surely made by some un knowledge less sensed Judges who actually don't know about Radha & Krishna's relationship.Leaving it here. Well In India , Today's young generation specially living in Big cities revolve around & encounter such words Live in , Love , Sex, Commitment & Betryal. Is live-in Relation Ship really something we should promote ? Can't we teach parents to inject proper Sanskar & Culture in their kids ? Time signifies Change....... With changing time , Indian society has changed a lot. Along with that meaning of Love is changing its now much closer to physical attraction rather than a blind & True love, Many Say its effect of West , Some say its their own decision to indulge in something. A recent study shows that 70-80% of youngsters involved in Love don't end in Marriages.More than 60-70% of couples indulging in Sex before marriage don't end up marrying. The data is increased in recent past.So now the Young couples who say that we are educated & intelligent enough to choose their life partners , but that doesn't look a good stat who support blindly Live-in. Recent Incident..... There was a recent incident when a girl from IIT Delhi was killed by his boyfriend in Shimla who was always a techie,Their parents didn't know how they went there? So saying that "educated & intelligent" young generation can take all correct steps looking diminished. A wonderful TV program called Emotional Atyachaar on UTV Bindass were by a sting operation it exposes how the love partners betray each-other for so called more hipped Love which is actually Sex where they want to reach.Most of the times its Men and sometimes its Women too. Hidden truth.. Live-in Relationship concept is being hidden and is secretly spreading in India, where a guy and a gal lives together for a period but there is no guarantee of any commitment during the tenure they are living together. Now whether its correct or not depends on what is ultimate result after their stay tenure. Love & Understanding... There was a saying  " It May take a minute & even whole life to understand a person" , This actually depends that do you really want to understand that person. What comes in between in understanding an individual ? Its EGO & rigid nature where people don't want to change themselves.Love what is love ... Going to any extent for your loved one, So why not to change a bit for your partner. Why to stay rigid. Off course Love the way your partner is but Love starts with giving a space of your partners feeling within yourself.So give a thought. Whats the Offense here... Love was never an offense , agreed sex was also not an offense if agreed in society & mutual cooperation and betrayal off course its a part of every individual somewhere in their life's. But its a crime when we consider parents involved with us. Nothing is an offense if your parents know about it, Atleast someone from your family will stand with you, if an individual who is doing something which is not accepted in society  take you parents in confidence before stepping into it. There are parents who dont give a damn about society and allow thier kids to live as they want.So Parents should be important personalities when you are doing something out of the box. Either accept it or not Love , Sex & Dhoka is just Fun for the new generation who pretends to be intelligent than their parents. Whats Required.... Lets teach commitment and ways of strengthening a relationship rather than promoting a fact where an individual keeps searching for a partner for whole of their life. Young Generation needs to take their parents in onfidence for each & every decision they take which affects their life. Parents always want their kids to be happy,So they give their kids a proper education, a good environment to live , they don't share the pain they are going through so that you as a kid doesn't suffer. So how can a kid be so selfish while taking a decision for his life, None other Kid knows what their parents like & dislike, So why to indulge in something which our parents don't like.Its Betrayal of their trust and that's why parents get hurt & react abruptly. We as a society needs to go forward.Lets build a stronger society. Emphasis on  trust , commitment , Love , un-conditional care & healthy relations rather than Condom & contraceptive pills. Regards Shail Note : The above email is totally an individuals thinking.

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